CLUE-LESS

 

Did it ever occur to you, when someone asks you how do you feel towards a guy? And the basic answer is "I DON'T KNOW".... They think that you are just being secretive or want to keep it to yourself, but the truth is that you actually got no clue. So, let us talk about it a little bit, shall we? 

It just happens a lot that you meet someone whom you feel comfortable with. It's like you both "CLICK". You become a part of each other’s life, spending time together, sharing moments, secrets, having fun. Being there for each other (supportive), helping out through the tough days, you know you become close. 
But here comes the question, who do I actually feel towards my- let's say- my mirror image? Some of us might not trouble themselves with this question and just let it be, live with the flow. Others on the other hand who are known to be over thinkers or those who use their brains more than their hearts will start to wonder. So, am I getting attached to this person? Like "LOVE" attached? or I am used to them being a part of my life as everything is so easy when they are around and I like it like that? It's just too confusing you see. The point is that sometimes you cannot differentiate between whether you are just friends or you are starting to fall for each other.  Some might suggest that maybe if you meet other people and try to get close you will get an answer. Like if this person is no longer in your life and it affects you badly then you have feelings for them. If you feel empty and something is missing then you do love them. Yet I don't think it works that way. Anyone who comes and be a part of your life, takes a piece of you with them. So, when they leave it's like they took a part of you away. It consumes you; it makes you feel sad, devastated, empty, etc...
You don't have to be in love with them to feel that I believe. So, I guess there is no sign to assure you or give you a hint about what you really feel about someone. Maybe you just feel so lonely and they filled that gap s you need them in your life, right? Maybe because they support you and help you through life you become dependent on them. A lot of theories and speculations I suppose, but no one correct answer. 
So, what to do? I guess it's best to stop thinking and "LIVE THE MOMENT". Just accept what life throws at you and "DEAL WITH IT". And in the end, though you may not have planned for it to happen, you might end up marrying that person.... Cause it's not just about "LOVE" that it takes to live happily ever after, it’s about understanding and facing the world together.......